Support that fits real life.
Stop disappearing behind strength and start reconnecting—with yourself and other women.
After decades of helping women navigate pressure, burnout, and identity shifts, Dr. Renea now pours that work into RealWomen Connect™—an online community where growth happens through connection, not perfection.
Hey, friend. I’m Dr. Renea (Re-nay) Skelton.
I’m a Certified Life + Communication Coach, Air Force veteran, wife, mom, sister, and a woman who knows firsthand the cost of carrying everything alone—and the power of not doing that anymore.
As the founder of RealWomen Connect™, a private online community where strong women finally get to stop being strong alone, I bring decades of experience helping women slow down, get honest, and reconnect in ways that actually fit real life.
My story (so far)...
I joined the military at 17—barely an adult, still figuring out who I was. I spent 22 years in uniform, leading, serving, and showing up strong. But behind the strength, I was quietly breaking.
For years, I chased perfection. I feared failure. I feared success. I wore every role—mom, wife, friend, achiever—like armor, hoping it would eventually feel like me. But it didn’t.
Then came the loss of my mom. Unexpected. Crippling. I shut down. I questioned everything—my faith, my future, my worth. I felt like a shell of myself.
And just when I thought I was piecing things back together, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Another jolt. Another invitation to pause. To feel. To choose.
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That tumor didn't just press pause on my life—
it flipped the script.
Facts About Me...
That's when it happened...
I gave myself permission to stop performing and start becoming.
I redefined success on my own terms.
I spoke the hard truths, even when my voice trembled.
I let joy back in. I softened. I owned my story—every raw, imperfect part.
I stopped living for the roles I played and started living as who I am.
And when you do that? Life begins to meet you in the most beautiful, unexpected ways.
Not because you have it all figured out—but because you finally stopped pretending.
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My inspiration comes from my 3 amazing kids and being married to my best friend for 28 years
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I’m a combat veteran and retired Air Force officer of 22+ years
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I hold a Doctorate in Organizational Leadership & Emotional Intelligence
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I’m a "joy junkie" and find delight in the simplest of things
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Favorite Color: Anything bling!
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My clients call me the “People Whisperer”... seriously!
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I was on the finale of Yellowstone (although you can't see me)
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I wish I had a pet Quokka in my life (Google it, it will make you smile)
My Personal Mission
I believe you’re not here to just get by—you’re here to live with purpose, alignment, and joy.
And whether you find me inside the RealWomen Connect™ community, through a workshop, or up on stage, you know I’m all about sparking those “aha!” moments that shift everything.
And yes, I’ll lovingly challenge you through the messy, uncomfortable growth, too—because that’s where the real change lives.​​
​This is your life. No more waiting.
Give yourself permission to finally live it—your way.
Give yourself permission to get the support you need to make meaningful, lasting changes in your life.
Let's Work Together
Women's Community
RealWomen Connect™ is an online community where strong women stop carrying everything alone and finally feel supported, connected, and understood.
Workshops that Work
Whether it's a school, business, or organization, my True Colors® and emotional intelligence workshops bring insight, practical tools, and energy that sticks.
Keynote Speaking
Make your next event memorable. Inspire you audience with real talk, humor, brain-based tools, and powerful stories that inspire people to start showing up fully.
"I've worked with Renea for 10 years. Her combination of dynamic presentation skills, brilliance, and character are truly unmatched... She earned impeccable praise from the workshop participants, and I can't wait to team up with her again."
Tony R.
Leadership Strategist & Trainer
"Dr. Renea is an amazing listener and has guided me to learn how to make my own happiness and joy instead of turning away from it. She met me where I was at the start and guided my way of thinking...I'm now more positive and loving to myself."
Jennifer S.
Coaching Client
"Dr. Renea is a gifted, intuitive listener who is uniquely able to distill what she has heard into valuable, credible insight. If you are looking to be inspired and make a difference in your life, Dr. Renea Skelton is the perfect choice for you!"
Staci M.
Parker County Relations Officer